The Adventurous Couple's Guide to Sex Toys by Violet Blue

Author:Violet Blue
Language: eng
Format: epub, pdf
Publisher: Cleis Press
Published: 2011-11-30T16:00:00+00:00

Strap-Ons and Dildos

When choosing a strap-on, take into account what kind of strap-on fantasy scenario you have in mind—pretty much any fantasy can be realized if you know the limitations of the market and how to get around them.

Newcomers to strap-on play will want to make their first purchase an inexpensive harness made of fabric or nylon with an inexpensive rubber dildo in a pleasing and reasonable shape. Options for harnesses range from neoprene and nylon to glittery vinyl, rubber, see-through plastic, leather, and velvet. Many online retailers have beginners’ strap-on kits, though I suggest that you purchase these from reputable (nonnovelty) retailers so that you get quality products that will actually do what they’re supposed to do, even if the kit is inexpensive.

All too often, novelty toy retailers mass-produce badly made harnesses out of fabric and elastic straps, which tend to fit terribly, have the dildo rest in the wrong place, and are often so loose that the dildo winds up doing embarrassing things when you’re trying to repeatedly thrust and pull out. A good harness will have a secure method of attachment, as in wide straps made of elastic, leather, or nylon, plus buckles or D-rings that let you tighten the harness to your body.

Harnesses come in two general styles: a single-strap model that’s worn like a G-string panty with the strap down the ass crack, and a two-strap model, with straps that run from the pubic bone, along the crease between the inner thigh and genitals, underneath the buttocks, and attach to the waistband in back, like a jock-strap. Some prefer the G-string style, saying that it provides a stable base for the dildo and rubs the clit nicely when thrusting; others complain of “buttcrack rash” from the center string rubbing on their anus and tailbone. Another complaint about the G-string style is that it limits access to the wearer’s genitals, so if a girl wanted to be penetrated or rub her clit while wearing the harness, it would be difficult. Also, this type isn’t adaptable for male wearers.

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